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  1. #1
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    You might also want to apply NILIF (Nothing in Life is Free). It sounds like a difficult, detailed 6-week training program or whatnot, but it quite simply is asserting yourself as alpha. Everything you say goes. You determine when to eat, what to eat, and where to eat. If your dog wants to eat, she has to sit or down or do some complex trick. It doesn't matter. If she wants to exit the door, she has to sit calmly and wait for your release. A friend of mine takes it even further. She makes her dog Down on a carpet mat and does not release the dog until she finishes preparing her own dinner.

    Now to connect it back to your situation - If your dog wants attention, she's not going to get it by physically nudging you. In fact, she's never going to get it at all unless you initiate it. Thereby, the dog should eventually give up and realize that you, as alpha, determine when and where attention can be given.

    Also, some dogs are just more velcro-y than others. My own dog was very very velcro-type for the first few months. She still has her velcro moments, but it's not nearly as bad anymore. Essentially, it was NILIF that saved me.

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    Rescued Pit Bull

    Sorry I can't help you with your problem old mate, I don't know a thing about pit bulls.
    What I do know about however is fighting rings, and I think it is really great of you to take this dog in and give it a decent home.
    In our street where I used to live in the Blue Mountains in Australia, about 5 dogs went missing from peoples homes, it was found that the stolen dogs were used as bait to enrage fighting dogs ...evidently there was one near to us that we all didn't know about. I moved from that area about a year ago, and rented my house to two policeman...before I left I told the policeman of the matter and about the rumour circulating about this dog fighting ring, enquiries in the neighbourhood were made, and to date no other dogs have been stolen. The dog fighting ring was just probably relocated.
    It's just terrible that peoples pets are taken and torn to pieces, just for the amusement and betting needs of some scumbags in our community.
    Best of luck with your new pet mate...I hope all goes well for her.

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    What a great thing you did in her rescue. Sometimes, with rescues we so love, care, and give attention to them we unknowingly encourage the dominent behavior. the HSUS has tips on what to do, basicly the same as what's been posted and incl. nothing in life is free. (I agree with the suggestions the posters give.) This will provide more info.

    http://www.hsus.org/pets/pet_care/ou...nant-Dogs.html

    You may have a dominance issue with your dog if:

    He resists obeying commands that he knows well.
    He won't move out of your way when required.
    He nudges your hand, takes you're arm in his mouth or insists on being petted or played with (in other words, ordering you to obey him).

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