Thanks everyone your input is so helpful, i feel gutted knowing that she feels she cannot talk to me,but i understand it as well, i am not always the easiest to talk to and a very easily stressed out individual myself, so i can understand her reluctance to open up to me, i really have to find a way for her to open up to me, i cannot believe my little girl who always seems to be happy to me and full of life, is so despondent and unhappy within herself, it pains me deeply to know she has been suffering alone, i am sure she shares this stuff with her friends,but then again i am not so sure.

I have always been a bit concerned with her kind of obession with horror movies and the like, i do wonder if this has influenced her some.

I just have to be very careful how i talk to her about it, that i know and that scares me, i don't want to make matters worse.