I really think you're being too sensitive about this. I never look at the number of postings a person has or how many views versus replies a thread gets. Don't focus on stuff like that. If you have something to say, say it. If people don't view it or reply, who cares? Sure, it's nice when you're asking for advice to receive some, but I'd rather receive zero replies than 20 replies saying ~ Sorry, I don't have any advice.