I have cancer....the road to recovery

[Edwina's Secretary]

Hey Slick.....when I was in the hospital recently I was given a private room (did not request it nor was I charged for it.) I am not sure why but perhaps being difficult and generally distrustful of medical personnel helps?

I don't know if you could ever be "difficult" but it might be worth a try.....(it comes naturally to me.... Be glad to give lessons.... )

[K9karen]

Sorry for the delayed response, which is, BTW, *D##N!*

If anyone can beat this, you can. And I know you will. You asked if anyone knew about this kind of "thing" and yes..my elderly uncle just had the same sirjury last summer and is fine. No further treatment. He was in the hospital almost one week, but went about his normal routine when he came home. Except for feeling tired and sore (oops i gave him a bear hug ))he looks and feels great. You will too!

Be sure to let us know where you want the pizzas delivered.

Wish I could be there for you too. You're awesome and I love you....Karen

[Barbara]

My insurance covers a private room but at the hospital I was there were only rooms for 2 persons

I had to share a room with a girl (ok like eary 30s) and she had two kids who whenever they came to see her they were not worried about their mom (they were like ten) they only said how difficult it was to get around as she could not do the driving because of her damn brain tumor. Then she cried all the time after they left!!!!!! I hope you get that private room!

[emily_the_spoiled]

Hi Slick,

I am originally from Canada and haven't lost all my connections

Unfortunately I don't have enough connections at VGH to get you a private room. Usually if you request a private room they will do their best to get you one (especially because you will be in for a week). I know people at other hospitals, just not VGH...

[Pembroke_Corgi]

I'm really sorry to hear about this news. Having a positive attitude makes all the difference in the world, and it really seems like you have the right approach. I hope the surgery and everything goes well, and everyone here will be thinking of you.

[catland]

I think its pretty obvious by now that you are far from being everyone's last choice.

Keep your sense of humor intact and all else should fall into place.

(((hugs))))

Julie

[Cincy'sMom]

Slick, your story about the mail slot reminded me of a friend who has been battling breast cancer for over 6 years. She lost both her parents and grandparents to breast cance, and alwasy felt for her it was a matter of when, not if.

What really has amazed me through her battle has been attitude. Her motto has been "Find a bigger problem" No matter how bad things seem for you, someone else is dealing with something worse. Sorat of the same idea of it all being small stuff, but a little different twist.

Lots more thoughts and prayers coming your way

[Soapets]

Hi. I'm just reading this now. You have a very positive attitude, and that will help LOTS. This is difficult for me to respond to. I'm glad it isn't the kind from smoking or second-hand smoke.

It's good that you have LOTS and LOTS of resources available to you. When this is all done and over with, your experience will be a priceless asset to you in relating to others with cancer.

God is working in your life, even though it probably isn't the manner in which you might have expected! Just keep the faith, and ask God to be with you every step of the way. You will do fine.

I will keep you in my prayers.................

Deb

[Karen]

Oh, yes, Slick - I forgot to mention that, but excellent slippers are key! You will be a celebrity when you walk the floor in your kitty slippers, as I was when I had my tiger-head slippers. They were huge, and had plastic fangs so it looked like they were chomping on my ankles. Whenever I walked, I'd get "Oh, you're the girl with the slippers!" Way better than those whimpy, characterless hospital-issued things.

And about the food gifts - I'd wait until you see how you feel after waking up - I wasn't hungry for a couple days, the anesthesia does that to some people. I'd save up the gifts of food for when you're feeling up to eating!