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    OH NO!

    I cannot believe this! I agree with Catty1... can your lawyer appeal this? I get so angry with the justice system, especially when it comes to the welfare of children! When will judges realize that it is not always the best thing for a child to be with the mother?

    I am so sorry that you are having to endure this for another 2 months. I hope and pray that there will be some way for your attorney to appeal and the judeg will "see the light".... I can only imagine what you must be going through right now.

    (((Hugs))) and prayers coming from Indiana.

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    If spinning words can help - maybe you lost - but the other woman DID NOT WIN!

    I just CAN'T BELIEVE this...oh hon...

    If the media would not do Alex more harm than good, it would be tempting...
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    I am sitting here reading your posts and getting updates from my Mother in law and daughter as to what transpired in the courtroom. As the whole story comes clear and I talk with Gary who is a car meeting with Jasper on the way to the Phoenix airport, I will relate it here. From what my daughter said Sharon was not only reprimanded but the Judge several times but fined for an outburst, the way Jesse is explaining it, the thought process is that our lawyer is standing is as parent in absentia meaning he will be at all Dr. visits and she is required to procure him counseling. If she misses or reschedules an appt. Alex will be immediatley surrendered to Ill. If what Jesse is saying is accurate then I have no doubt Sharon will screw up quicker rather than later. I will repost as soon as I have verification of this and any other details from Gary.
    THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH I don't think any of you know how important you are all to us and our family or how indebted we are to you kindess and good grace and prayers for my boy and our family.

    I have not told Adrian yet as he went to a friends house and I refuse to ruin his evening, plenty of time to tell him after his shower etc.

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    Looks like you may have lost this battle but have for sure not lost the war!

    I wounldn't be at all surprised if the "mom" doesn't somehow expect you all to pay for her fine!!!

    Hang in there!!! We are with you and praying for all of you!!!
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    OKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKK just got off phone with Gary, yes Alex will be in AZ until October 11th at which time the Judge is going to enter final rulings on all aspects of the case including but not limited to custody. Sharon will have Alex with supervision an officer of the court juvenile division will be dropping in unannounced a few times a week the Drs must submit to court not Sharon their findings. A social service person is being assigned to him at school, he is to stay in daycare (court approved) during the day and she has to file her itinerary EACH DAY for what and where he is while in her care. The only reason that Judge is allowing and requiring this is because he has ordered a psych eval to be done by 2 independent offices of SHARON. Because we had requested several things besides custody (the psych eval, parenting classes, a complete check of her clientele and also a financial affidavit from her and the bookstore accepting credit cards ) Alex needs to be in Yavapai county to retain custodial jurisdiction on our part. Gary has stated that after her behaviour in court today he has no worries that we will not recieve full sole custody on the 11th of October. So we lost but I think (dare I say it?) we won? Gary has made it part of the order that my grown kids are to be allowed to see him and take him for reasonable visits as they are family etc, and we can keep closer tabs on him that way and that Alex is to call us each day with Gary on phone so that she cannot withold him via phone. I am still sick and upset that he will be near and with her but I have hope that this is the end. Sharon is so determined to NOT adhere to anything the court says that I am sure she will violate at which time Alex will be transported to us immediatley.

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    Looks like this cloud may have a silver lining after all, eh?

    You may well get him before October 11 and his mom may get the help she so desperatley needs.
    No matter what anyone does, someone some where will be offended some how!!!!
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    If Sharon has her evaluation SOON and "flunks", would that send Alex back sooner?

    How is ALEX in all this????

    At least when your kids visit, they can take him for ice cream!



    I hate to hate ANYONE, but I hope Sharon screws up SOON - without hurting Alex!
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    Thank you all!

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    Lemme get this straight...The judge wants this granola chewing whackjob to undergo a psyche eval, yet he's allowing Alex to go back with her till the next court date in October??? *scratches head*

    THAT I don't get. But, I guess he knows what he's doing. I hope the judge asked her to surrender her passport. I trust this biatch as much as I trust a snake laying in the grass just waiting to pounce.

    You guys are definitely on my "high alert prayers". If what you told me on the phone is true (and I have no doubt it IS) then hopefully Alex will be back with you VERY soon. She needs to get locked away for good. I just feel bad for you and Alex. How in the hell do you tell a 6 year old that he has to go back to his wicked mother's house after all he's been through.

    It's only a matter of time before she f$%#@ ups. Hopefully it'll be sooner.

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    MM - thank goodness the judge spoke with Alex privately, and told him he was visiting so he could see the Judge again. And that he would see Gary A LOT. As long as Alex feels ok.....dear dear boy....save up for the ice cream party!

    THe conditions under which Sharon must operate are almost designed to make her screw up - heck, I would trip the first day! - so I am sure there is method in their madness.

    hugs and prayers ongoing!
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    The dawn of every day may be the day you get Alex back!!!

    I bet it won't be long. Sounds like she will stew and simmer a bit then blow wide open (specially now her money has been cut in half) . I hope Alex isn't near the fall out though!!!

    Still, save all emails and stuff from her. It may come in handy.
    No matter what anyone does, someone some where will be offended some how!!!!
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    MOFF I agree I hope Alex is not around when it happens, as for the emails I forward them all to Gary! Just like I do with all voicemails.

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    WOW! What an absolute nutcase, and that's an insult to all of the rest of the absolute nutcases out there! You'll get Alex back, and it won't be long. He will be watched over by lots of people in the process.

    I will pray for God to keep a protective shield around him at all times, and to put the right people in his path every step of the way, until he is back home and safe with you. God will protect him, and will be watching over him constantly.

    I will also pray for peace of mind for you and the rest of your family. Know that Alex will be protected and taken care of. The judge made those stipulations so that Sharon will have to try to prove that she can be a fit mother, and she will fail, and then there will be no question as to where Alex will live and grow and learn and play and thrive.

    Things will work out for the best in the long run. In the process, Sharon's true character will be exposed, and she won't be able to give seminars and hurt so many others through her sick teachings, either.

    Alex is a very special little boy, and through his innocent involvement in all of this, MANY more people are going to be helped in the long run. Try to remember that. GOD WILL make everything work out for the best, for EVERYONE, in the long run....................

    PRAYERS and HUGS coming your way from Nebraska, throughout this ordeal, for as long as they are needed...............

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