A bit off while they were married but he did all the childcare anyway, they weren't together that long and he had Alex until last June as she never wanted kids,she does however want that 1100.00 a month she gets while he lives there you would think that would buy some food? As we pay her insurance for him and her and her carpayment it would seem like oh groceries could be nice? I am sorry venom is leaking out, it's a bit hard not to just rant. Thank you all for bearing with me.