I got in touch with the vet second day, and she gave us some antiflamms for her to take, which the first vet in my opinion should have given her to ease her pain, it is her third day today, not much improvement, she is not going as often and is more comfortable and getting some sleep due to the pain relief to ease the irritation but she is still sitting on her box for ages and going at least four times, and obvious the area has irritation as she is licking her bottom a lot, i think we will have to get a urine sample, they have a kit they provide as often at the vets they are stressed and don't provide one, however i think she would as she cannot stop going, but i will explore the home option first, it looks like it might be crystals, as the antibots don't seem to be kicking in, her third day today,as i type this she is behind me on her litter box sitting there for ages trying to go, she does always go but just little bits.

Yes i am feeling quite stressed, not a pleasant thing to watch your kitty suffer, and if you have had them yourself you know just how painful and uncomfortable they are,hopefully the pain relief is helping that out.

Donna are you having a senior moment, snigger snigger,Lol i have no pumpkin, this is my lexie, she is four years old .

Anyhow fingers and paws all crossed please for my sweet girl.