Dave ~ I am so sorry for your loss. www.petloss.com helped my husband and I when we lost Kuhio after 17 wonderful years. Everyone there understands loss and grief. The boards are moderated. No postings are released until they have been reviewed. Only helpful, supportive, comforting messages are released. I hope you visit here or there and tell us more about Star. The board is run by a man named Ed. There are many people who will listen to whatever you want to say. There is also a chat room if you need someone to talk to. Blessings to you and Star.