Thanks Corrina i have given the idea of the caravan up , i indeed would be silly to do that,, i know his family are doing tough love with him, he did move home for a while but there was trouble and they kicked him out, but made sure he had somewhere to go , he was living on a campus not far from here, so i have no idea why he has now chosen to live in a car, not sure if his parents even know, we have no contact so i really don't know all the details.

Last time i heard there was a family dispute probably caused by mike, but his own father and younger brother beat him up,now that is not what i call a sensible thing to do, but then his father has always been a hot head, just like mike., he learn't well from him thats for sure. NOT.

I was thinking if i can find out where he is i could maybe take around some wholesome food or something to keep him warm, he has 150 dollars a week ,so he does have money for food, but it would all be junk food, as he has no cooking facilities, gosh i shudder to think what he is doing for his other basic human needs, honestly i could just shake him for being such a silly boy.

I know he is not my responsibility, but hey i have taken in three stray cats, surely i can help my nephew in some small way, it is the least i can do, even maybe talk some sense into him, he and i do have a good relationship, i wrote to him when he was in prison and he wrote back, so i feel i can do something, be it small to help this lad, i know you cannot save everyone, but i have to try.