Karen, it is good to get an update on how you are doing.

You are getting great advice from Karen - document everything. Sounds as though they are hoping that with time you will forget your pain and suffering.
I would shove a scrapebook full of pictures at them - with dates for every day of suffering you have endured.

The book (not your scrapbook) needs to be thrown at this guy - and no legal wrangling should cloud all the real suffering that you have had.

It amazes me how some people just don't get it - and a good clunk on their head and a whollop at their wallet ought to set them straight.