Quote Originally Posted by Karen
Oh, sweetie, have you thought about adoption?

I know it hurts right now, I know it. I'll PM you. But we love you, and hope that you get a second opinion, and are given hope. If you cannot give birth, maybe there's a baby out there who needs the love you can give it? That's a personal decision, of course, but I some wonderful people who were adopted and are as close to their adoptive parents as anyone I know - and even closer to them than many biological children I've encountered.

YES... YES, I agree. Please do not despair. You are NOT a Failure! And yes, things can change so quickly. Think ahead... to better times. The old adage is really true, "Things always get worse before they get better". So you've been through the worse, the better is just on the horizon. Think about adoption if you really, really want children. ALL children are easy to love. They just "pull" the love out of you. Karen's advice is quite good and yes, you are loved here at PT!!!