Like Ginger, Jen, Slick and Carole, I'm not a party person at all. I can relate one-on-one (or two), but any more than that and I do and say dumb things. I have spent a few parties in the kitchen, bathroom or backyard. No matter what I do I can't seem to feel comfortable around lots of people. I can understand how some people can become hermits, although I don't want to be one.