Megan, you're way better off without him. I mean, think about it - he left you a message on AIM saying he wanted to break up. What the? What a cop-out way. Online, for one. And leaving you a MESSAGE? Two wrongs, plus never even talking to you about it after. You're better off without this loser.

Take him off of your signature and forget about him. If he wasn't a nice guy during the relationship, forget about ever being friends, seriously. You don't need to associate yourself with him.

I know you're hurting right now, but you'll see.. you deserve so much better. You're young, you've got plenty of time to find another guy you love and who loves you back, with all of who he is.