I think it's over.

[buckner]

Megan, you're way better off without him. I mean, think about it - he left you a message on AIM saying he wanted to break up. What the? What a cop-out way. Online, for one. And leaving you a MESSAGE? Two wrongs, plus never even talking to you about it after. You're better off without this loser.

Take him off of your signature and forget about him. If he wasn't a nice guy during the relationship, forget about ever being friends, seriously. You don't need to associate yourself with him.

I know you're hurting right now, but you'll see.. you deserve so much better. You're young, you've got plenty of time to find another guy you love and who loves you back, with all of who he is.

[carole]

Megan YOU did not do anything wrong, now just remember that, I know it hurts honey, but you are only young and believe mike will be history in your mind in no time, plenty more fish in the sea , especially for a beautiful young lady like yourself, still i know it is hard for you, as you seemed so happy and enjoyed his company, just be glad things did not go further and then you found out he was a jerk, I know you cannot see it now, but maybe it is for the best, you deserve only the best Megan, hang on in there sweetie, your knight in shining armour is awaiting believe me, HUGS.

[AbbyMom]

What else can I DO? What am I doing wrong?

There's nothing you can do. You did nothing wrong. Everything is normal. This is the unfortunate truth of courtship. You have just discovered that you were attracted to someone who, well, just didn't treat you very well IMO. Now you know what to look for...someone who is more honest and considerate.

Probably some day, you too will want to break up with someone. It happens. And now you know how NOT to do it. Sometimes people do have to hurt each other, but they don't have to make it worse than necessary.

I know you're hurting now, but I promise that it will go away. Hopefully, it will go away because you've found someone who will treat you right. You deserve it.



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[Cataholic]

The way people act is a reflection on THEM, not on you. I remember breaking up with someone, and having all these people say, "you are young, you will find someone else, you deserve better...blah blah blah" and thinking, "you guys have no idea what you are talking about. I liked him so much, blah blah blah".

People say these things because they DO know better, or more, or have more experience. I know you hurt, who wouldn't? He really treated you poorly, and that hurts! It should hurt, as it shows YOU have feelings. He apparently was lacking in them, along with class, taste and compassion.

As hard as it is, move on fast, act like you don't care. Soon enough, the acting will seem real, and the next thing you know, you will be fine!!! And smarter for the experience. I don't imagine you would let your next boyfriend treat you so poorly, would you?

Good luck.

[gini]

You are getting such good advice here and compassion.

I want to add just one thing HOLD YOUR HEAD UP HIGH!

Thank goodness you found out what a jerk he is so soon.
Lead your life by YOUR standards - not his.

[Pembroke_Corgi]

I'm sorry- breaking up isn't easy, even if the relationship isn't going the best. Spend some extra time with your pets (that always cheers me up) and buy yourself a gift! You didn't do anything wrong at all, and I'm sure you'll find someone else when you least expect it!

[G535]

He's not worth it, there has to be someone much better out there for you.

[ILoveMyAbbyGirl]

Something is wrong with him. He won't talk to me about it, but I know something is bothering him. *sigh* I wish he would tell me. I feel bad.