I saw a brief clip of Tom in an interview now that the baby has arrived. He was asked about the experience. Part of his answer was that he is *still processing it.* What's to process? It happened. It's processed. Why do people (especially celebs) have to use these overworn and meaningless phrases? *sigh* How about something normal like "it will be something I will never forget." Processing it sounds like he is some sort of computer.