I agree with you! If they want it back thats fine, if they or someone else they know have a baby! What the point of keeping it when it isnt in use? Paying it forward would be a good idea too but it is basically the same concept as giving it back to whoever gave it to you because in the end your still not gonna have it and you are helping out someone elses baby! Maybe hubby is just stressed out or something, or maybe it's a guy thing! Who knows!