What should I do?

[kuhio98]

Yep, send her a note. It honors your father and the choice he made to marry her. It was a thoughtful thing for her to do. Especially, if she knows you don't care for her.

[caseysmom]

You are so much better than her just send her a short thank you, you will feel better about it in the long run.

[Lizzie]

I agree that a brief note thanking her for taking the time to send the things to you and that you appreciated receiving them is appropriate. You won't want to make it personal, talking about what the items mean to you. I doubt if you will regret sending it, but if you don't you will probably regret that decision later.

[jenluckenbach]

Please send a thank you note.

[joycenalex]

send her a thank you note. you be the class act she should be.

[JenBKR]

I agree with the above, be the better person and send a brief note.

[Pawsitive Thinking]

Send her a note - your Dad would be proud of you

[carole]

I think i would send a quick thank you note too,doesn't have to say much, but expresses that you do appreciate the things you got, do whatever is in your nature, and from what i know about you on PT, you are a very caring, sweet lady, and i don't think you could just do nothing.

[Lobodeb]

FYI. I sent the thank you note on Friday.

Dear _____________(black widow),

Thank you for sending me some of my dad's things. That was very nice of you and very much appreciated. I miss him so much.

Please tell ______ and _______(my step sisters) hello for me.

Love,

Debby.

[JenBKR]

I think that sounds perfect. You are the one with class in this situation.