Phred meant when my son died last summer. He drove 3 hours so he could dogsit during the visitation hours and during the dinner after the funeral for my 5 and Christy's 3. I don't think anyone thought to take pictures. He had never been to my home and he picked up a key from the funeral home and walked into a house with 8 dogs in in it. Fortunately they all had met him at the Findlay Dog Park meetings before hand.