The more I read about your delima, the more and more it sound exactly like that situation with me and Samanth/Midnights former owner. I was so in love with Samantha and she with me and we KNEW we belonged together only her other Mommie didn't care. It ripped my heart out of me and I cried many, many tears over the situation and I cried even more when they moved away and worried myself to death over her.

If this person moves away, just make sure you tell her if she ever gets rid of them, to bring them back to you and keep a bowl of food out for them in case they make their way back to you. That is about all you can do short of making them go "poof!"....

My heart goes out to you since I know what you are going through, I know how bad it hurts!