Carole ~ You are getting through to her. You are leading by example. You are showing her how to care for the kitties. Until they leave for good, you can continue to shower love (and food) on them. When they do leave, make sure Dianne knows that if she ever needs to find a home for them, that you are available. And don't be surprised (unless she moves very far away) if Duchess and Vicky show up back at your place some day. Kitties always stay with those they love. Dianne is watching and learning by your example. You may not be there to see it in action, but have faith that you are helping. Halo, Cammie and Pepper are reaping the benefits of all the lessons Kuhio taught us. I wince when I think of the the times we left her alone and the cheapo food we bought and our lack of concern if she went outside. She taught us well and you are teaching Dianne.