Donna I don't think that will happen, i kinda already asked her that in not so many words, i think she is switched on enough to get what i was saying, she said oh yes i want the cats , i love my cats, especially Duchess she has been with me for over four years, i think i just have to resign myself that they will go with her and there is nothing i can do about it, i am going to give her my phone number and ask her please to ring me to take care of them when she goes away, whether she will or not remains to be seen , and i have no idea when she is planning to leave , could be ages away yet, but that will make it only harder on me , the longer they are here the worse my heartache will be.

As hard as it is to accept , i guess i have no choice, they are her's and there is not much i can do about it, i just have to continue to try and educate her on better pet parenting , and hope some of it gets through, as hubby pointed out if she is with her daughter maybe when she goes away she will be there to take care of them, she actually took Dianne's third cat Charles, i doubt he has been fixed though, so just as well the girls are now.

If i were frank i will always anguish over these girls forever, i will be wondering how they are and if they are ok, not something i look forward to at all, but my hands are tied, it is not a good situation to be in, and i wish i were not in this place, but i am and i have to deal with it as best i can.