Bad news (Aidan)

[Pawsitive Thinking]

Oh sweetheart, I am so sorry to hear this about our darling Aidan. Can only enforce what all his other "Aunties" have said - it is not your fault. As he grows up if his eyes don't function properly his other senses will compensate. With you and his Dad right behind him he will learn to cope and adjust to everything. Try to be positive (hard at the moment I know) but he will be just fine and so will you.

In the meantime we're sending you tons of love and kisses to get you through this xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[Sara luvs her Tinky]

Im so sorry that you guys are getting this news.

I have to echo what everyone else is saying. Anything is possible. I really feel deep down that it is to early to expect the worst outcome. Nothing is your fault. The best thing in the world that can happen to anyone is to be born to a loving family. Aidan is truly blessed already to know the love of his mother and father and that is all he really needs to grow up happy.

You guys will be in my prayers. God can do anything.

[prechrswife]

Jaime, please don't blame yourself. Sometimes these things just happen. You have a beautiful, precious little boy who is a gift from God. As others have said, new medical advances are being made on a daily basis. I will keep you, Aidan, and your husband in my prayers. Feel free to vent anytime. (((((Hugs)))))

[JenBKR]

(((hugs))) sweetie, I am so sorry. Jen said it best, nothing is 100%. No matter what, he is still such a lucky baby to be in a home filled with so much love.

[ramanth]

*HUGS* Please don't blame yourself.

[lv4dogs]

hugs sweetie. Jen hit the nail on the head when she said nothing is 100%. He can still grow up surrounded by loved ones & still participate in many activities.

Even if he is legally blind in only one eye he may still be able to drive. My Aunt is & also considered legally blind in one eye, she has a license & drives just fine.

[mina'smomma]

Oh Jaime. Don't blame yourself hun. You did everything you could to bring Aiden safely and healthy into this world. Somethings are out of your control. Birth defects can happen no matter how good the mom takes care of herself. Even a mom who follows all the rules and is in perfect health can have a baby with birth defects. Just keep on loving that adorable little guy like you and Josh can and he'll grow up just as happy as can be. Who knows maybe by the time he gets old enough to have surgery there will be something to give him sight.


Hugs