Gosh some of your stories were very inspiring and helpful, I am not sure I am the person who is able to do this to be honest, I have to really think long and hard about this, i could just continue to feed her if this neighbour leaves in the new year and keep an eye on her, i have mixed emotions and not sure what is the best to do for her, I cannot take her in myself, so really even if I tamed her , there is not many who will want to adopt her is there? oh well for now I will have to concentrate on getting them spayed and take it from there., Thanks a lot for the advice .

I just saw her today out with her kitten, she appears to have only one, the other sadly was dead, maybe she only ever had two is that possible, I am hoping to rescue bubs this weekend, and out to the shelter with it, and then trap mama for spaying, geez I am not sure i am cut out for all of this, it is very draining and worrying, but i have to do something., I always knew I was not cut out for fostering or rescuing ,now I am doing it all the same.