kitty in a bad home

[Cataholic]

How ANYONE, let alone a 'friend' to both the human, and an animal, could sit by and watch this happen, without saying a word, is very sad.

You call her a friend. You see her animal abused by her son. I feel bad for all of you. Most of all the cat- as he/she has no voice.

[dab_20]

Well my friend is his sister. She is 13 and doesn't know alot about animals. I called her today and asked her to make her brother be nice to her cat. She says I am butting into her buisness and saying that I think SHE is abusing the cat. That's the last straw!! The next time I go over there I will make sure her brother understands he can't do that. I was 9 four years ago and I knew that it was wrong to do what he is doing. I am going to talk to her parents if I ever see him do it again. They may give her away to another home because she is starting to pee on the carpet. I told them she may have a bladder infection and she is being treated for it now.

[dab_20]

here is a pic of her when she was a kitten.

Callie:

[catnapper]

Poor cat! Sounds as if a talk is in order.... but it needs to come from an adult. No offense, but I doubt they'll listen to a friend of their young daughter's. It'll come across as bratty if you do it. These people are ignorant and they won't take kindly to a lesson given to them by a child who is more knowledgable than they are.

[dab_20]

Oh, I suppose your right.... but who should do it? My mother would just say to stay out of their buisness.

[carole]

If you don't think the parents will take kindly to you saying anything, can you at least speak to your friend or her brother, I would not take a harsh approach, but teach him how to handle the kitty if you can, I admire the fact that you are at least trying to do something to stop this and taking some responsibility even though the kitty is not yours', your own mother should be prepared to step in and say something animal abuse should not be tolerated, end of story, if everyone just sits and does nothing it will continue and could get worse, I was thinking maybe the cat was peeing because of the continous stress it is under from this boy, however am glad to hear it has had vet treatment.

If you can take it upon yourself to make a difference in this kitties life, you will be duly rewarded, just the feeling that you helped a helpless creature is the most wonderful feeling in the world, GO FOR IT, and try your best.

[dab_20]

Thanks so much. This is why I really like Pet Talk. My family doesn't take to researching and talking about animals as much as me, and it's nice I can come here to talk about it. Thanks again for helping me. I will talk to my friend and her brother.

[catmandu]

Sometimes a cild that is being bullied becomes very frustrated and takes it on on a small Creature.
I hope that you can help that Kitty before He becomes compeltely anti Social,and Unadoptable.