Thanksgiving we split between families. During the early part of the day, we are with my parents. After dinner, we go over to wherever his family is and have dessert and hang out for awhile.

For Christmas, whatever tradition we had basically either is null and void already OR this will be the last year for. It totally depends on when Nug decides to make his grand appearance. If he comes at least a week early, we will probably try and stick with our tradition one last time. If he comes right at Christmas (between the 22nd-26th), our @$$es are staying home. If he comes late, we'll probably try and stick with the tradition one last time. Next year begins people coming to US if they want to see us. I refuse to disrupt the baby's schedule and take him away from his toys to trek all over the place.

So if he's early or late, we'll be spending Christmas Eve with Josh's family, most of Christmas Day with mine and then stopping by his family's to exchange gifts on our way home from my parent's house. That's what we've been doing the last few years and God willing, will do this year one last time.