I *did* do the right thing (follow-up)

[finn's mom]

Good to hear, Jaime. Thank you for the update, I was wondering what happened.

[Scooby4]

I've been there in your situation but unfornately, they don't always get the proper reprimand . It is VERY tough to say something and it was apparent this guy had a history of this behavior. You just happened to be "outside" of the direct loop and weren't aware of it. It took someone like you to help out those who couldn't or wouldn't say anything. Men like this usually get away with this behavior because many women don't feel comfortable of saying anything. Too much stigma on what sexual harassment is or isn't. You have to know WHEN to fly off the handle at an offensive remark versus a bad joke. This incident clearly was wrong and there was proof. I am glad you didn't respond nastily or in the same manner of speak because that could have lessened the view this was offensive.
I am a female Electronic Technician and part-time electrician. A VERY male dominated field. It is hard to establish the "offensive" line when you are the ONLY female in a group. I've had to put up with my fair share of offensive statements and harassment. Unfornately, by my putting up with this behavior, my complaints often go out one ear. It is just considered "part of my job". My bosses comment that : I knew I was going to work around men and that I should expect to hear these type comments. I agree but to a point. However, there have been times that even my male co-workers have been offended by the comments some have said to me. That is when the line of offensive appears... That is when it gets even tougher because I lose the respect of the other male co-workers who are offended if I don't say anything, and if I do say something then I look like someone who cries out "sexual harrassment" and don't get trusted.
That is why I am glad you stepped up and said something. You most likely helped other women who had felt helpless and were afraid to speak up. It took someone brave enough like you to say you've had enough.
By the way, my izzle fuzzile cussizle... Do you think he knows that purple isn't the proper color? Sounds like "blue balls" travelled upward...

[Oggyflute]

Good stuff Jamie. I'm glad your company took the matter responsibly and appropiately.
Scooby, there is still no excuse. I have ten service technicians working for me, and I have only one female who works the shop floor. Things can get out of hand comment wise, and I've always said to my female staff member that she is to bring to me any comment she finds offensive, and I will take action. She's a good worker and most often than not gives a lot better than what she gets, and seems comfortable with the work environment. In saying that I'm very much aware of my responsibilities.