His medical license should be revoked. What a jerk. If your pain isn't related to Crohn's, then he should be recommending another specialist. That's what my doctors did. Over the years, I've changed doctors at a drop of a hat until I found ones who really cared that I was stooped over , walking like I was 90, and in pain for 30+ years. They all called me at home when they found out my mom died! They didn't have to do that. I'm so blessed. They all believe that in this day and age, there is no reason a person has to be in agony, and if they are, there's a reason, and let's find it. I'm so angry for you! My mom was in the hospital 9x in one year and we always either had or passed by the same ER nurses and doctors, and they always came in to say hello, sorry you're back etc. When the waiting room was full, we got taken right away. The nursing manager is always around and I know that if the nurses don't make the grade, they're reprimanded, suspended or fired. When my mom, at one time, in ICU, got manical and rude (not like her) and God Bless those nurses who took it in stride and were as sweet as could be. I was embarrassed and apologized, but they said not to worry about it. I don't mean to go on and on, but I can't believe YOU of all people, sweet as you are, could be treated like crap. My theory is "what goes around, comes around". Please please find a new doctor and check the medical board for his credentials and any complaints etc. They should be ashamed of themselves.
Sorry, I'll get off my soap box. But you and I are "old pros" at this stuff. I pray for you every night that you feel better. I hate that you're still suffering so. It breaks my heart. I don't know you that well, and I never met you, but I feel like you're a girlfriend and I care very much about you.