Quote Originally Posted by Samantha Puppy
Well, I won't know what the total truth is until I hear back from my friend. My mother has mentioned that if it comes back that MIL misrepresented the party to my friend (and therefore, the guys), she would be willing to host the pizza-wings-beer party that Josh and I had wanted. However, if it comes back that our friends really aren't interested in celebrating our baby's impending arrival, it doesn't really matter who hosts what. Know what I mean? If they don't want to come, they don't want to come and I have some reevaluating to do.

Even if it does turn out that MIL misrepresented the party to my friend, Josh and I know that having our own or allowing my mom to host it would cause more problems between more people. Right now, I'm assuming the only person MIL is upset with is me. If my mom were to host a party, MIL would then be angry with her... with Josh... AND with me... and it just wouldn't be pretty.

I don't know. I'm trying to stop speculating until I hear back from my friend. It's just hard not to.
Wow, Jaime. It does sound like you should wait to get the 100% entire story, and, find out what was said to your friend and your guy friends. I know what you mean about reevaluating, too, I've had to do a lot of that in the last year. I hope that doesn't turn out to be the case at all. I wish you the best of luck in finding out what "went down."

As for your mother-in-law, your mom was supposed to be the host to begin with, that would be pretty silly for her to get that upset about your mom hosting it. That was the original plan to begin with. Gosh, I hope you're able to work everything out, though. I'd hate to think of you stressing out about stuff you shouldn't have to. For now, just take some really deep breaths.