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[momoffuzzyfaces]

I did that, and no response. I'm trying not to take it personally, but I'm having a very hard time.

Thanks, though!

Don't take it personally. She's probably just busy. I think she works in the day so probably won't be on line until later.

[Lobodeb]

Don't take it personally. She's probably just busy. I think she works in the day so probably won't be on line until later.

Hmmm, PM received, no response, tried to log on again...NOTHING!

[momoffuzzyfaces]

Hmmm, PM received, no response, tried to log on again...NOTHING!

I just checked and you have been added as a member.
You should be able to get on now.

[Lobodeb]

Thank you!

[Kfamr]

Eesh. Patience, please. I've had company the past 2 weeks as well as work and LIFE to live. I check my PM's but cannot always reply right away. I try and accept new members to the chat as often as I can.


I don't see why you'd take it personally and honestly it upset me a bit to see that you did, especially when rolling eyes were included.

[Lobodeb]

I don't see why you'd take it personally and honestly it upset me a bit to see that you did, especially when rolling eyes were included.

Like I said, I was TRYING not to take it personally. I tend to over react to little things (ask the hubby). I have emotions (pregnancy only makes them worse.) I was gonna do the mad face, but thought better of it. I really didn't want to think it was anything personal, but, in all honesty, was my first reaction.

No hard feelings. Thanks for adding me. I apologize if I upset you.

[finn's mom]

I really didn't want to think it was anything personal, but, in all honesty, was my first reaction.

It's a perfectly normal reaction, don't be ashamed. It's ok, most people let stuff like that bug them, I know I do! You're not a weirdo or overly sensitive for letting stuff like that get to you sometimes. It usually isn't something to worry about, and, obviously not in this case anything to take personally, but, for most, that is often the first reaction. Even just the other day, I didn't see a friend's thread and she wrote me asking if she'd offended me because I hadn't posted, and, I told her of course not, that I had just not seen the thread. I was sorry that I hadn't, because I hated that she felt that way even for a second. But, it's a perfectly normal thing to feel like something might be up when you don't get a response or whatever. It happens all the time, on both sides...where people can't respond right away because they're busy, and, where people take it personally...Anyway, I just wanted to say something, and, ***don't forget, if you are wanting to chat, post on here and let people know that you're there!***