I can understand that you are worrying. I hate people cutting parts of me- even if it is better when they come out. And the last thing you need is other persons who worry more than you - the reason why I didn't tell my parents about the brain tumor until 4 months later when I had to see them and I still had to wear bandanas to cover the bald spots in my hair So I think it is good Terry has still all these leaks to worry about and cannot just concentrate on you

But I also know people who survived this surgery and whose scars were so thin you couldn't even see them. Wait another 10 years and you will have more creases in your neck than just this scar.

And you better stay that night in hospital. With the one and only surgery in my life I felt so sick because of the anesthesia- it was the worst part of it.

{{{{{{Hugs}}}}}}