Quote Originally Posted by Cataholic
IPeople that don't talk about/work through their issues now (or close to when they are experiencing them) usually don't mature into people that communicate well as adults. If Matt can't/isn't into his feelings now, chances are, he won't be any better ten years from now. That isn't the type of person you want as your life partner.
I don't think thats true. Just because he wants to keep things to himself for awhile doesn't mean he will be like that in the future and I don't think its fair to say, that he isn't the type of person you should have as a life partner. There are lots of people that don't talk to people about lots of their problems, me being one of them, so I don't think that is a fair thing to say.I'm sure down the road he will be able to talk to someone about this!