I've been ditched.

[jennifert9]

Try not to take it personally. Honestly. I know it's easy to say and hard to do but seriously...
This has happened to me countless times...I ask a friend if they want to do something later or the next day or even weeks in advance and they say "Oh yes, that would be fun" or whatever. And then, while to me, that means I have committed myself to that activity, that person, that time...to some people, it doesn't mean anything. Even if they make the plans with me, they still feel it's OK to change their minds, often without notice. I can't stand it but I've learned to live with it. I know EXACTLY which friends to make plans with now and which to assume all plans are "optional" with. I have one friend who just absolutely refuses to make ANY plans at all...If she is around, we hang out. If not, we don't. I have just learned to enjoy the time I do spend with her and not worry about "next time."
I love to do things, be out of the house, be with friends and other people and I CAN'T STAND it when I am looking forward to something and then plans change and I'm stuck home or alone....But I adjust and so will you!!
Now if she is just a jerk, that's a whole different story!! Anyway, we're happy you are here with us tonight!!

[ILoveMyAbbyGirl]

New Scenario.

She called. She asked if they could still come and get me. That was a half hour ago. Maybe they got lost, it isn't easy to get to my mom's house. If they were lost they would call though...

[sammy101]

oh i know how you feel.I get left out of alot of things.I'm sorry this happened to you
{{hugs}}

[carole]

I am sorry to hear about this happening to you Megan, to me it is just common decency to phone up and say you are held up or cannot make it, manner's eh? where have they all gone? I hope they have an explanation, otherwise, I would kick them to the Kerb, not worth having as friends IMO.

[slleipnir]

I wouldn't know where to start with all the crap I've put up with from my so called "Best friends". I went through a lot of hurtful times with a lot of different people.

I honestly don't have one person in real life that I would call a true friend. I don't even have friends in general. I never hang out with anyone and it really sucks. I hope your friend makes it to your place and isn't fooling around....

[ILoveMyAbbyGirl]

You won't believe this.

It was a SURPRISE PARTY! My birthday is on Monday so they surprised me a little early. I feel bad about the assumptions, lol. It was so fun. They got me great gifts, gift cards, a cupcake cake with candles on each cupcake, and we bowled. It was so fun.