I've been ditched.

[ILoveMyAbbyGirl]

Sad thing is, she's the one in my sig with me.

[GoldenRetrLuver]

Yeah, I've been through that before.

IMO, she doesn't sound like your real friend/best friend if she's done this to you before. That wasn't very considerate of her to not even call you to tell you that she changed plans, nor was it right of them to ditch you like that.

Feel better, kiddo. Maybe call her later and see what she has to say about it?

Julie

[ILoveMyAbbyGirl]

She has changed so much lately. I miss my old best friend. And the sad thing is, she is the only friend that does it to me.

[Anita Cholaine]

I completely understand you, because something similar is happening to me now

I have a friend who started to pretend to be cool and popular and left me and my friend Paula alone.... She doesn't look cool, actually, she looks stupid.... I glad to have at least one true good friend though....

I don't understand why people do this kind of things sometimes, I also feel terrible about it....

[luvofallhorses]

I am so sorry. ((((HUGS)))) Hang in there.

[jennifert9]

Try not to take it personally. Honestly. I know it's easy to say and hard to do but seriously...
This has happened to me countless times...I ask a friend if they want to do something later or the next day or even weeks in advance and they say "Oh yes, that would be fun" or whatever. And then, while to me, that means I have committed myself to that activity, that person, that time...to some people, it doesn't mean anything. Even if they make the plans with me, they still feel it's OK to change their minds, often without notice. I can't stand it but I've learned to live with it. I know EXACTLY which friends to make plans with now and which to assume all plans are "optional" with. I have one friend who just absolutely refuses to make ANY plans at all...If she is around, we hang out. If not, we don't. I have just learned to enjoy the time I do spend with her and not worry about "next time."
I love to do things, be out of the house, be with friends and other people and I CAN'T STAND it when I am looking forward to something and then plans change and I'm stuck home or alone....But I adjust and so will you!!
Now if she is just a jerk, that's a whole different story!! Anyway, we're happy you are here with us tonight!!

[ILoveMyAbbyGirl]

New Scenario.

She called. She asked if they could still come and get me. That was a half hour ago. Maybe they got lost, it isn't easy to get to my mom's house. If they were lost they would call though...