If you can let her go, it will sure surprise me! Am I the only oddball that thinks you SHOULD keep her? She is just to special and you have been through so much to get her well.... It is no sin to fail Fostering 101~ My vote is you keep her where she belongs and that is with YOU! The new family don't have the investment in loving and caring in her that you have so it would be easy for them to find another one. You and I both know if you let her go, you will always regret it.

Some of them you just bond with and they with you...... This is why I could not foster, it is to hard to give them up.