I can relate to this, as this was me when I was younger. My parents opted to go against the doctors suggestion... and no pill. I had to endure the pain. Every month, it was just a given that I would miss at least one day of school. Once I was able to pay for my own medications, I began taking the pill, and what a difference it made! I was amazed at how the week would fly by with little or no pain! I hope that your husband will re-think his decision. Remember that you have done everything you can to talk with her about the ramifications of having sex and that you have raised a level headed child! She is fortunate as many teens don't have parents that will even talk with them about the issue. I agree that you should NOT go behind your husband's back to get the pills for your daughter. That is not the responsible thing to teach your child about relationships. I hope this has helped. Just to let you know, I am now 43, no longer on the pill, and my cycle is not near what it was when I was younger! It does get better!