awwww (((((Debbie))))) My sweetheart RB Bert is buried at the head of my bed - right outside ther window and I will still lay there and miss him until I cry - and he has been gone about 7 years now. I think there will always be reminders of him and same for your Tubby - it gets easier and sweeter - but I think there may always be some tears and days of missing him so much.