She's not ignoring her box though. She still uses it without a problem. After she ruined the first pillow and before we got the new one last night, she had absolutely NO PROBLEM going in the litter box.

We have Feliway from when Maya first started her problem. It hasn't done anything - they don't react to it at all, and it never seemed to fix Maya's problem once and for all as she still has her little "accidents" outside the box... but hers are easy to clean up and localized to immediately outside the box in a low traffic area of the basement. Not in our bedroom or wherever a pillow may be.

I'm sorry if I come off sounding bitchy - I'm just tired and scared and worried and frustrated. I'm tired of dealing with this and I'm frustrated that I don't know how to fix it or figure out what the cause is.