Val, I am so sorry to hear about your Dad. Can sympathise with how you are feeling. All I can say from my experience that if your Dad has chosen his path (sounds very similar to the one mine took) all you can do is keep loving him.......

I got angry with mine for not making any effort but he really didn't want to battle with Parkinsons so once the anger faded we just spent time together.

Sending you a HUGE hug from me and the furrkids xxx