dukedogsmom, they notch all the feral cats so the next time they catch this cat, they will know they have been fixed, to avoid an extra pain for them too.

but..mine weren't ferals. and what's the worse, they cut it HALF off. HALF?! oh god, that's ...that's more than just a nick. I can't believe I have five one-eared cats now, things just seem so unreal.

it breaks my heart looking at them or their two-eared pictures now. it's so hard to not feel guilty. I should have pushed them, make sure they wouldn't do that, twice. or call them every hour to remind to not do them.

donna, you're a lurker, I guess that's special. you're right, maybe all this was for the best. thank you!