Get your locks changed immediately. Especially if she ever had a key to the house...or even access to a key. But even if she hasn't you need to do this. Never ever be alone with her. Not yourself or your husband. ALWAYS have some third party around if you MUST interact with her. Never let her in your home again. What she is doing can be very dangerous for you both and for herself. You really need to think more about protecting yourselves than you do about her feelings. Don't ever give her anything else, including rides, money, food, or any other kind of help. I know this all sounds harsh but someone who is mixing alcohol, drugs and anti-psychotics and is already behaving in a totally irrational manner is EXTREMELY dangerous. I know you want to help, you want to protect your friend etc. But you need to protect yourselves first and foremost.

Don't try and take revenge just stay as far away as possible. Forgiving her in your heart is one thing....allowing her access to you and your life anymore is another.

Denyce