I'll admit I am horrible at taking BS. I really dislike drama too and it seems that all X wants is BS and drama . She is still living with our friend but I don't know for how much longer as he isn't too interested in being accused of the same things she is accusing my husband of.

Is an abuse cycle I think. Shes been abused so long that she thinks that if anyone is being nice to her, they must want something (sexually mostly). She associates with people who are prone to being abusers and shies away from people actually doing some good for her.