I'm so sorry about your husband's condition and the toll it is taking on both of you.

I don't have any kind of medical training, but here are a couple of things that come to mind.

Have you considered any kind of alternative treatments - acupuncture, herbal medicines - not to cure but maybe to help relieve his suffering?

Do you have hospice services where you live? They might be more helpful than the ER doctors.


anyway - please know you can always come here to vent - we'll always listen.