okay, shoot, I didn't mean like posting just one or two times, I meant joining, and NOT lurking, or posting. I don't mind if they are lurking, it honestly would be nice if they let us know they are lurking, lol!
I didn't mean this to be mean or harsh..I was just, I don't know, it was sorta dumb I guess. I am sorry if this angered anyone ( I think it did, as I read some posts..)

Finns Mom, I guess it is sort of a pet peeve. I know it's dumb, but, I weird..I guess I never really thought this whole thing through!-I should should learn to think MORE before I type..

Again, I am sorry for the little uproar..I do understand that sometimes there are good intensions for things, that never get accomplished. I do that quite a bit..I guess I wasn't thinking clearly.

Steph and Jes

ps. I didn't mean ANGRY, I meant, frustrating..