Nobody was trying to be rude; they are giving you honest answers. You think un-sugar-coated answers are rude. They are merely the truth given to you from experienced people. You need to realize that we care about your cat more than you may ever know, even though we've never met her. We care about her health, her well-being. I'm sure she's loved - thats evident.... please listen to what others have said. Its from pure concern that all points have been raised.

I work HARD to rescue and save unwanted cats. Its situations like this that upset us rescuers.... YES, your cats DO have homes... but SOME OTHER kitten COULD have gone to those homes! You not only endangered another kitten's life, you risked your own cat's life by knowingly bred her - AFTER you said you've read up on breeding.

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Please use proper english. TO instead of 2. YOU instead of u. Your use of internet slang is making you come across as immature and therefor inadvertantly giving the impression that you are ignorant of many things.