Please Answer ASAP!

[carole]

This post just goes around and around in circles, I believe Jenny has posted some very informative posts for you, and has been polite all along,although I do not share all of your views Jenny, I certainly respect them., for our young poster it would we wise for you do as well IMO.

I think Karen our founder and moderator of PT has said it all really, if you cannot post politely then you should not post at all.

Jenny I think the cats and kittens are blessed in the fact they have homes to go to, they appear to have care,food,shelter and love, alot do not, I consider my neighbours cats and kittens to be at high risk, they live outside permanently, have no vaccinations, no flea treatment or worm treatment to my knowledge, and get fed once a day in a big bowl they share, they are neither spayed or neutered, and although I have tryed to edcuate this woman, I have failed and I have my hands tied, legally I can do nothing, she can continue breeding kittens galore and their is nothing I can do about it, now to me that is what I consider neglect and poor care of animals, it just does not compare to our young poster.

I wish to make this clear, I am not taking any sides here, and I do not agree with her breeding her cat, but what is done is done, and at least she seems to be doing the responsible thing here, by now spaying Jolly and has found good homes for the kittens,that really is my whole point, to berate her for doing that seems senseless to me.

[PayItForward]

I do agree with you Carole. There are cats in worse situations and this poster is very young. I just want to give her the facts she needs to hopefully make the right decisions for her cats in the future.

[carole]

Jenny you are one who has posted in a polite manner, I think everything you have said is of good use to her, and that is just my whole point, we can all help her if we just do it in the right way.

I just think being rude, abusive or anything in that manner is not productive to anyone,it just puts her on the defensive and really achieves absolutely nothing.

[PayItForward]

Originally posted by carole
I just think being rude, abusive or anything in that manner is not productive to anyone,it just puts her on the defensive and really achieves absolutely nothing.

I totally agree, which is why my declawing forum is very calm in attitude considering the issue in question. I insist on factual points not insults as only facts are relevent.

[ainslee_breann_sr06]

I misunderstood the question my bad, I thought she meant large as in...company wise...Both vets called were small animal vets, but the largest ones in town.....sorry

[PayItForward]

Originally posted by ainslee_breann_sr06
I misunderstood the question my bad, I thought she meant large as in...company wise...Both vets called were small animal vets, but the largest ones in town.....sorry

No need to be sorry, it is easy to misunderstand a written post.

Glad that the vet opinions were small animal vets, as I said just keep a very close eye on Jolly.

[furrykidsmother]

This thread really does seem to have gotten a bit out of control. I just hope that Jolly Anne and babies are well. Let's try to get back on more of a positive note. Let's see Momma & baby pictures and try to give guidance rather than critisism. I am not faulting anyone, but I hate to see such a beautiful place as PT turned into an unhappy place.

[Pawsitive Thinking]

I am not faulting anyone, but I hate to see such a beautiful place as PT turned into an unhappy place. [/B]

Well said - the posting did get very unpleasant from both sides. She may have done the "wrong" thing in some eyes but at least she had the sense to ask for advice. Like you, I hope the next posting will show us some beautiful kitty pictures

[lv4dogs]

I'm sorry I got rude for commenting to things that just didn't seem to add up at all. Like I said before I am glad you are seeking out info. and taking care of the kitties.
Like others have said this is the wrong start for a PT welcome and its also not a common thing. We like to try to keep it a happy place yet at the same time we also have to take into consideration the best interest of the cat(s). I guess when the info didn't match at first & the heat kicked in I guess it all went our heads.

[Pawsitive Thinking]

I guess when the info didn't match at first & the heat kicked in I guess it all went our heads.

All done for the best of reasons though - a mummy cat and her 4 lovely babies

[ainslee_breann_sr06]

yeah, it would of helped if you wouldnt have made so many assumptions, and asked before u got rude! thats what upset me!

[kittycats_delight]

A lot of times assumptions are made unfortunately. But instead of getting angry and things ending up all blown out of proportion sometimes we need to keep a level head and say wait before you judge this is what you don't know. But we and I think almost everyone is guilty of this just freak out. It is human nature to defend yourself and that is what you did. We want to help Jolly not start a war with you over misunderstandings. So please instead of the fighting let's concentrate on Jolly and her babies and do what is best for them.

How is Jolly today? Is she still spoting blood or has she stopped? How is her appetite good? How are the babies? Are they all growing and eating? Make sure to check if there is a runt cause usually the bigger kittens will push this one aside from the food.

Please let us know how everything is going.

Michelle

[tvt]

I would like to add my apologies to one and all as well, please.

I especially want to apologize to kittycats_delight. You were right, I got slanderous, and I am VERY wrong and VERY sorry.

I wanted this website to work for me as a source of research and information, but it hasn't worked out the best. I learned the idea of using bubble pop on furniture, and I learned one cat scratch post is not the same as all the others just because they are made with the same materials , but I also made a lot of enemies instead of catloving friends.

Welp, I'm out of here. You all keep trying to help our 4-legged pets the best you can.

Thanks for everything: tvt, Mystery, Lexi, and Chief

[kittycats_delight]

I want to thank you for the apology and I also apologize for any personal remarks I have made to you. But you do not need to leave this site. It is an amazing place and I assure you will get any and all help we can offer. There are people here who have dealt with any and every possible situation, disease and behavioral problems. There are members who have 20-30 years experience. For your cats stay in touch and ask for advice if you need it. We will give it freely and without prejudice. No grudges are held here. When you have many different people you will have many different opinions and sometimes things get blown out of proportion. Please don't abandon this amazing website and the great people that are here.

Michelle

[luvofallhorses]

Originally posted by kittycats_delight
I want to thank you for the apology and I also apologize for any personal remarks I have made to you. But you do not need to leave this site. It is an amazing place and I assure you will get any and all help we can offer. There are people here who have dealt with any and every possible situation, disease and behavioral problems. There are members who have 20-30 years experience. For your cats stay in touch and ask for advice if you need it. We will give it freely and without prejudice. No grudges are held here. When you have many different people you will have many different opinions and sometimes things get blown out of proportion. Please don't abandon this amazing website and the great people that are here.

Michelle