Boomer, I have 5 house rabbits and volunteer at a rabbit sanctuary and I think you've gotten some very good advice. My main piece of advice is that if she is caged you let her out and you sit on the floor with her for as long as possible...you can read or watch tv with the sound on low but it's important that you be down on her level. Remember rabbits have been prey animals for 10's of thousands of years and they are naturally timid and shy... Speak to her in a soft voice. Do this at least 2xs/day. Most rabbits hate to picked up (they can't get away from a potentially dangerous situation). As Karen said it takes a lot of patience to win them over. Also the advice of not trying to pull her out of her cage it sound. Rabbits will see their cage as a safe haven and you don't want to destroy that trust. Rabbits are naturally curious creatures and she will come out on her own and eventually she'll come over to check you out if you don't do anything threatening. But it will take time. Check www.rabbit.org it is a great website full of great information. Good luck!