No, my networking is just that. Networking. The town I live in is VERY professional and filled with Engineers. It is one of the higher income areas in the state. The bar I go to is in a Hotel where many of the visiting company reps come to. The other bars or nightclubs in town aren't set up that way. They are mostly young people. I am not that young anymore.
Your right I should concentrate more on my networking. Another benefit I have found is that I have lost 10 pounds!!! I am more excited about my weight loss than anything else. It has gotten me into better shape.
I think I will just ignore the band for awhile and continue doing what I need to do. The weeknights are for networking and the weekends are more for pleasure. There is a different type crowd each night so I can diversify somewhat. I really need to find a job soon. Thanks!