Thanks for the advice. I was kind of thinking along the same lines...I don't have any reliable unmarried male friends. That is part of the reason I want to date....
My plan was to get a guy to go on the dance floor and kiss me in front of them all. That hasn't panned out so well. Ironically, the guys I try this with "hook up" with someone else by the end of the evening. So I am sitting by myself again and the guy I kissed is macking on some other chick on the dance floor!
The band then looks at me to see my reaction to this. I don't even care and most likely set the guy up with the girl he is kissing!
Ugh!!! It is frustrating!!! The guy was going through a divorce when we met. His other bandmates are married so they were trying to set him up. He doesn't need any help in that department, hence the divorce... I've tried to give hints to the bandmates that I have interests elsewhere. They don't talk to me directly. I was hoping letting them know I go other places, might convince them I am not there for guitar guy.
I thought this situation would have ended a long time ago.
My feelings on this situation is that the guy may actually still like me. He's just not looking for a "relationship". He's wanting to "sow his seed" for a while since his divorce. Which is fine and dandy with me. I don't care. However, his band mates seem they want him to "find someone". I've seen them have conversations and point at me. I respect the band members but it isn't helping. It just makes him more determine to NOT have me like him.He's convinced that I like him.
This guy isn't a guy that I would want to date. He's almost 20 years older than me! He's been married 5 times! He's a recovering alcoholic and drug user. He's cheated on every woman. His latest girlfriend I suspected was a hooker. (he wasn't aware of her money making ways). He doesn't even sing that well!!!
Hello!!! Does this guy sound like something any woman would want to date?!
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