I am going to post here, and in your other thread.

I had 7 cats at the time I had Jonah. I am a single mom, and I work full time. Having Jonah, and bringing him home- NO BIG DEAL! I seriously think that this whole thing is totally overrated, and that it is nothing more than "if you believe it, it will come". By that I mean, if you start out looking for strange behaviours and want to link them with a new baby, you will find them. My cats ranged in age from 1 year to 14 years. Every single one of them adjusted without any issue. Now that Jonah is beginning to crawl pretty quick, they are learning they need to stay two steps ahead of him, or their hair might get pulled.

As to not having enough time to take care of a cat (or dog or whatever) once a child gets here.....I struggle with that concept. The pets are no less important then you, your husband, your skin child, your job, your sense of self, etc. You make the time. And, while I am making it sound very simple, I write from personal first hand and very recent experience. I will admit to hiring someone to cut my grass to free up some of my time, and to putting a crib tent on the crib to make sure the cats didn't jump up there while Jonah was very little. Now, at 10 months, I wouldn't worry. They would be crazy to jump in there now. BUT having the crib tent still on the crib means I can keep the crib on the higher setting without worry. Usually by 10 months, I should have lowered it to the lowest setting since Jonah can easily stand up. I can't stand the bending over to put him in there asleep, and having to worry about him waking up as I 'drop' him the last 8 inches...LOL.

Again, I wouldn't spend much more time worrying about the cat adapting to the baby. There are some things I could tell you to start worrying about with the baby only...he he he....but not the cat and the baby.