Why did the women go on this show in the first place, it is IMO her business how she spent the money, but she went on Public Television and told everyone, which now makes it everyone's business.

I think 4.5 million is a bit extreme, although there is no value on anyone's life, a million or two would have been sufficent compensation I think.

People do grieve in different ways', and maybe this helps comfort her through her loss somehow,it is not my idea of grieving sure, but then I don't want to judge someone like her, when I have never been in her shoes, I have never lost someone in a tragic circumstances like 9/11, and I have never had that much money given to me, who know's how I would react, doubt I would do as she did, mine would go to helping a lot of other people, my family, friends, and the kitties of course, but every person's idea of happiness is different.

I Can understand those who gave to this cause, being upset all the same, we give to charity , in the hope it will be used wisely, but as it has been said, once it was given to her, it was her's to do with as she liked.