Yep Donna I would also be very wary of this gentlemen, He might just be a lonely man, but he is far too direct, he obviously has conjured up some kind of fantasy about a relationship with you, flattering as it might be, you know to be cautious, I think you should just be very direct with him, if you seriously don't want his attentions say so, besides there is a much nicer gentleman in Pittsburgh who is neither pushy or sad, just a real great guy ya know lol.